Email Submission: “Hi I’m 18 and I’ve always been curious about my labia ever since I was very small. I have always disliked them and even remember when I was around 6/7 I felt the need and want to cut them off because I felt like they didn’t belong there. I’ve always struggled with my body, especially my women parts such as my pussy and breasts. It was a really big problem in my life and I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend who I have now been dating for a year but the problem has gotten so bad that I won’t let him look at me down there. He never has and its really causing conflict between us. He has eaten me out and all of that but it’s always been with the lights off and everything. He has had two partners before me and has definitely hooked up with many girls (I’m the shy type he was kind of a man hoe haha) and I’ve told him before that my vagina was different and that my lips were bigger and he replied “I’ve watched porn, all vaginas look the same” which always made me feel bad because in porn their labias are always pink and pretty and almost non existent while mine are long, (the picture doesn’t do it justice but) they are very dark on the ends along with the skin around my entire pussy area, I’ve got bumps everywhere and a dark circular scar kind of on my bum area, they are very wrinkly and the left is longer than the other. Plus I don’t know another girl like me who has longer or darker labia. They bother me so much and I’ve always wanted to get surgery but this site has helped me a bit and I hope one day I’ll have enough courage to show him and to not be so ashamed of myself. Thank you.”
_______________Thanks for sharing your poignant story and your very beautiful labia. As I said in my email, I literally gasped when I saw these photos. You have some of the most beautiful, fascinating, delicate lips I have ever seen. You have been given such a gift. I’m in awe and so jealous. Wow.
When your boyfriend says vaginas in porn look the same, what he’s probably saying is that he doesn’t see or worry about the differences. Like all faces are basically the same (same structure and general layout, we all have eyes and mouths and noses etc) yet every face is unique, the same goes for vulva. What I think he was saying is that he sees that there’s a vagina, and labia and a clit and a mons, and well yes they are all the same. He’s give you oral sex so he KNOWS what your labia are like by feel. Believe me, when performing oral sex on a girl with small labia vs large labia, you can tell the difference. So he wants to see you, because he wants to be able to appreciate all of your beauty. He knows they are large, and he loves them. So what’s the problem?
Your labia are perfectly normal, natural and really very common. OMG you have NOTHING to be ashamed of. You say you don’t know any girls with lips like youurs. Well I can pretty much guarantee that you do. Large lips aren’t rare, but with crazy talk about surgery (on gorgeous normal lips) I’m afraid they are becoming an endangered species.
I really hope you gain more confidence from being here, and you’ll see from the amount of love shown to them from your supporters on this that i’m not the only one who KNOWS they are amazing.
Emma
xoFolks, what words of support do you have for this beautiful girl?
I think hour boyfriend is gay …..
